Over the years, I've observed a recurring trend — many people have redirected their focus to serving others in areas where they once struggled. In my case, the journey began with numerous personal challenges, all stemming from a pervasive issue: comparison. 

In seventh or eighth grade, I stood out for not changing into a sports bra before gym class. I recall thinking, "A sports bra? I don't even need a bra-bra." That incident triggered a cascade of comparisons between my body and those of my friends, who seemed to be developing curves. This constant scrutiny extended to our gifts and talents. While my friends excelled in sports, theatre, piano, and hairstyling, I found solace in my room, pouring hours into journaling, composing poems, song lyrics, and short stories about our lives. Additionally, I spent considerable time on the phone or MSN messenger and other chat sites, helping friends navigate their struggles. 

Writing, listening, and aiding others were my passions. Yet, as a young girl caught in the web of comparison, I failed to recognize my own uniqueness. Upon reaching the end of high school, I abandoned my writing aspirations and aspirations for studying psychology at university, opting for what seemed like the safest path: accounting. 

The game of comparison morphed into a belief system that didn't serve my highest good. Deep down, I believed I wasn't enough as I was. This belief system manifested in various forms — from body image concerns to devaluing my interests and seeking validation through relationships. I even believed that my worth was tied to my relationship status, leading me to marry at the age of 23, thinking it would make me "enough." 

It wasn't until I turned 29, after the birth of my second son, that I began working on myself, embracing activities that brought joy to my heart. Discovering a passion for weightlifting and running unearthed a dormant voice and fire within me, ultimately leading to a divorce before my thirties. 

In the 9-years since finding my voice, I've dismantled these old beliefs using various tools and methods, not just in theory but also through practical application. Today, I wholeheartedly believe in my self-worth, appreciate my natural body (goodbye breast implants!), and understand that my value isn't tied to my relationship status. I've recognized my unique gifts and talents and embraced the understanding that they matter and contribute to the world.

Empowered by these beliefs, I've ventured into self-publishing guided journals and a children's book. I've launched a podcast for women titled The Spirit Unleashed and approached relationships with an open heart rather than a need for completion. Most importantly, I've come to understand that each person is special, guided by unique desires in their hearts. We are called to show up as ourselves and spread love by being the person we love while doing what we love. 

I used to be miserable, seeking validation and lacking belief in myself. When I shifted my focus to living purposefully and creating a life that felt incredible and expansive, everything changed. Now, I want to help you change your life, not just your mindset but your beliefs too. Two essential lessons I've learned are that our thoughts don't shape our reality; our beliefs do, and what we believe is what will be confirmed for us. My hope for you is that you believe in yourself and know your worth.

Thanks for being here.

Robyn :)